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Imagine that your lover is a dessert

Monday, September 20th, 2010

Sweet caramel is one of delicious desserts that smells and tastes like something innocent and childish. But, actually, when you smell caramel perfume or lotion, you decide to purchase this flavor product immediately. There can be many various reasons for it but still you understand that caramel drives you mad. If you consider caramel for romantic foreplay, try to use Rich Caramel Body paint.

Lovers Body Painting

Edible body paint is sold and distributed through numerous stores in malls and online through direct retailers of adult theme gifts. This item comes in many delectable flavors, like cherry, strawberry, banana and chocolate. Caramel body painting is usually well-spread among young couples. Many people use it for sensual stimulation in the bedroom. The use of edible paint applied with soft and continuous brush strokes on specific erogenous zones that can arouse your partner.

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Rich caramel body paint is created especially for those who don’t really like chocolate or fruit flavors. Caramel consistency, smell, flavor and texture make the real lovers of caramel candies use it again and again for erotic plays. For those who want to experience something new in their relations and indulge artistic muse try to use rich caramel paint. Turn your lover into a tasty treat with this body paint. Imagine that your lover is a dessert!  This is delicious fun for two that gives new meaning to “topping”!  

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When you consider body painting, learn your partner’s attitude towards this kind of “art” beforehand. Not everyone wants to be painted on. However, rich caramel body paint is just absolutely different from other kinds of edible body paints. You can enjoy not only the taste of caramel, but you can enjoy the view. Imagine your naked lover covered by rich caramel signs and pictures. Especially, when you see certain commands written in caramel. You won’t be able to resist the temptation and follow all the rules of the game offered.

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Usually people use edible body paints for making their intimate relations more fascinating, for adding some spice into their life. It’s hard to find a couple who can definitely refuse rich caramel body paint trying. It is obvious that everyone would like to try it. But not everyone is bold enough to reveal his inner emotions and let a piece of extravagancy in his sex life. That’s why it’s better to experiment different kinds of foreplay before you decide to use this or that style.

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Rich Caramel Body Paint is probably the most effective choice for those who have never tried edible body paints before. It’s like a new game with its own rules and with unexpected results. It doesn’t really matter what kind of body paint you choose, or even what kind of foreplay you may prefer. The main thing is to respect your partner and what is more important, to respect his point of view. Once you are done with choosing – be passionate and reliable. Don’t be in a hurry. Take your time for having the best romantic night ever.

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Romantic Proposal Ideas

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

Before i tell you some really romantic proposal ideas, you need to make sure that you don’t simply carbon copy an idea from somewhere else!

Proposal IdeasI suggest you make your proposal completely unique to the two of you by using some of the many shared experiences you have together! That will show you’ve been paying attention!

I hope you get some insight and inspiration from these romantic proposal ideas:

1. Tell her that you have to go on a 2 week business trip which coincides with your anniversary! After 1 week, she’ll be missing you! Surprise her with your presence and propose!

2. Go on a hot air balloon ride at night, over the mountains and under the stars! Take her favourite food and some champagne and propose to her! Don’t forget an ipod or magazine to lend the balloon operator!

3. Go digging for shells at the beach! You could “find” an old bottle with love poem inside! Read it to her, it will become clear it’s about her, then propose at the end!

4. Have an instant wedding! Be extra sure she’ll say yes first though! Take her for a meal, propose and when she agrees, start the wedding on the spot! Have all her friends and family on stand by! Make sure everything is planned in fine detail!

5. Get her three red roses. One representing the past, one for the present and one for the future! The ring is attached to the future!

Proposal Ideas 26. Go for a nice spa visit followed by a photo shoot! While you’re getting photographed, go down on one knee and propose, you’ll have the pictures forever! Afterwards, go to a nice restaurant followed by a 5 star hotel!

7. Arrange to meet her in the park! Show up late on a Horse wearing a rented suit of armor. As you approach, a friend could play Holst’s “Jupiter!” Get down on one knee and offer to be her prince!

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Pregnant Women Uncertain About H1N1 Vaccination

Monday, September 28th, 2009

It’s getting to be that time of the year again – to get a flu shot or not to get a flu shot?  According to many experts, there are certain populations of women who should certainly get a flu shot, particularly women who are pregnant. On the other hand, critics of the shot maintain that there is no guarantee that a flu shot will provide protection from the virus and that there are many potential side effects that outweigh the potential benefits a flu shot may provide.
According to Dr. Katherine Taber, who was quoted in an article in the Baltimore Sun about this matter, pregnant women are quite conflicted when it comes to whether or not they should get the shot. Yet, health officials have listed pregnant women as being top priority for flu vaccine and have been placed at the top of the list for receiving the swine flu vaccine.

“It’s tough. They’re worried about the safety of the vaccine because it hasn’t had a ton of testing,” she said. “They’re asking if Tylenol is OK and I’m telling them they have to get this new shot. The risk-benefit says the vaccine is safer [as compared to getting the H1N1 virus] – take the vaccine. But they’re skeptical.”

Of course, facing skepticism in light of a new vaccine is nothing new. In addition, only about one in every three Americans currently gets a seasonal flu shot, with the rates actually being lower among those groups of people who are at the greatest risk of facing complications resulting from the flu. In fact, only about one in five children gets a vaccination and the rate of vaccination is even lower with pregnant women. So, convincing pregnant women to take a relatively new flu vaccination will likely prove to be quite difficult.

At the same time, the risks associated with the H1N1 virus are quite real. In fact, experts believe about half of the people in the United States might come down with the bug and that about 90,000 of them will become seriously ill. Seasonal flu, on the other hand, kills about 36,000 people each year throughout the United States, with many of them being elderly. Approximately 200,000 people are hospitalized each year due to illness related to seasonal flu. When it comes to the swine flu, however, pregnant women and children are considered to be the highest risk group. To date, over 500 people have died from the virus throughout the United States.

“For the most part, we did hear a lot of hesitancy expressed around the 2009 H1N1 vaccine – concern among some of the moms about, for instance, the newness of it and the speed with which it’s being developed,” said Kris Sheedy, who is the director of communications for the CDC’s National Center for Immunization and Respiratory Diseases. “Some of them used the word ‘guinea pig’ – ‘I don’t want myself or my child to be a guinea pig.’

“It really did underscore the need for us to get the message out that every year, we develop new flu vaccines because the virus is ever-changing. This goes on every year, so essentially this 2009 H1N1 vaccine is basically a normal flu vaccine with a different strain.”

The following is the list of highest priority groups for obtaining the H1N1 flu vaccinations:

•Pregnant women

•People who live with or care for children younger than 6 months old

•Health care workers and emergency medical personnel

•Children 6 months to 4 years old

•Children ages 5 through 18 who have chronic medical conditions

48 Tips to a Happy Marriage!

Thursday, September 24th, 2009

I came across a list titled: “48 Tips to a Happy Marriage”. I thought that they are worth mentioning and maybe exploring. I wonder how much of these are followed by couples in our society and do they find them relevant and applicable?
Since I am still single; I will comment about each one from my own perspective and state what I think about it; by that; I am not dictating or promoting anything, I am just thinking in the form of writing.

The list goes as follows; if you become bored while going through them, stop and come back later because I found them very interesting and I am hoping you will do too:

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1. Start each day with a kiss ~ I think this one is not that hard; on the contrary; it can be healthy and nice.

2. Wear your wedding ring at all times ~ most couples do wear the ring, however; their reasons might vary, so as long as they think of it as a sign of their commitment to their spouses, then they are on the safe side.

3. Date once a week ~ I believe this one is very healthy; maybe not as often as once a week, let’s say every other week or that a date can be inside your home and that you don’t have to go somewhere fancy to have it, you get the idea, right?

4. Accept differences ~ No one is perfect. However; healthy arguments are good for the relationship, hence; the most important thing would be learning how to compromise with one another.

5. Be polite ~ Please, thank you, you are welcome… these are not only meant for strangers; your own spouse and family should come first and you must always use these phrases inside your home.

6. Be gentle ~ a person is supposed to be the closest to his/her spouse, being gentle is crucial to keep them close enough or they will find that comfort elsewhere.

7. Give gifts ~ nice small gifts are appreciated every once in a while

8. Smile often ~ I would say: Smile Always because it is contagious and you are more likely to be smiled at when you show your teeth more often!!

9. Touch ~ intimacy between married people is very important and touching is a means of communication that reflects closeness, connection and love; it is your way of keeping the spark alive.

10. Talk about dreams ~ dreams of the future that is; if you don’t share your dreams with your spouse; then who?

11. Select a song that can be “our song” ~ this sounds like a cliché, but it can be nice, don’t you think?

12. Give back rubs ~ this means: be comforting both mentally and physically and if you don’t know how to give back rubs and massages; it is time to learn!

13. Laugh together ~ laughter is like smiling and as they say: it is medicine. When you share good laughs together; the fun grows in the relationship and you grow closer and stronger every day.

14. Send a card for no reason ~ another cliché? Maybe, but everyone likes to receive a nice “I love you” or “I miss you” notes every once in a while; it does boost one’s ego, doesn’t it?

15. Do what the other person wants before he or she asks ~ of course; you need to know your spouse so well to be able to do this one. I guess this comes with time as you grow to know each other but seek to get that knowledge; don’t assume that it will come to you!

16. Listen ~ this could be the most important one ever, but note that you should listen with empathy and not just hear what they are saying; you should get involved.

17. Encourage ~ positive support and being there for one another is also very important; seek their support and give them yours and be generous!

18. Do it his or her way ~ sometimes; you need to do things their way just to show how much you love them and respect their feelings.

19. Know his or her needs ~ what good is a spouse if he/she does not know the needs of their significant others? This should be your primary concern!

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20. Compliment twice a day ~ everyone likes to hear something nice as a compliment; so give them that when it is due. It should not be literally twice but don’t be extreme by not giving at all or giving too much; just say something nice when you can.

21. Fix the other person’s breakfast ~ it doesn’t have to be breakfast in bed though!

22. Call during the day ~ but don’t over do it and be obsessed with calling him/her. Give them their space but also show them that you think of them by a 2-minutes phone call saying “how are you doing?”

23. Slow down ~ and don’t jump to conclusions; always give the benefit of the doubt and wait to hear them out.

24. Cuddle ~ yes; intimacy is very important and reflects love and deep feelings.

25. Ask for each others’ opinion ~ absolutely; whose opinion would you seek if not your spouse’s? Your decisions will reflect both your lives and not only your own, so their opinion is important for you to make the right move.

26. Show respect ~ all the time; whether you are alone or among others. Showing respect is more important than showing love.

27. Welcome the other person home ~ show enthusiasm when they come home and greet them; this means that you are happy because they are home now and that you were waiting for them!

28. Look your best ~ I understand that this is not easy to implement since we face different situations all day long, however; it does count that you make the effort to look your best every once in a while just for their sake and not only because you are going out or expecting guests, get the point?

29. Wink at each other ~ another cliché? Probably, but it can be any other gesture like smiling their way across the room or dining table, or holding their hand for a minute, just anything that appeals to both of you.

30. Celebrate birthdays in a big way ~ this does not mean a big party; just show them you care about their personal occasions.

31. Apologize ~ and don’t be too stubborn to admit that you made a mistake, because apologizing can clear things between you and allows you to move on from the conflict in a healthy manner.

32. Forgive ~ from the heart and not only in words; forgive them and mean it.

33. Set up a romantic getaway ~ this sounds like fun every once in a while; no harm in that!

34. Ask, “What can I do to make you happier?” ~ in other words; communicate and keep it going, because one’s needs might change along the way, and what they used to like a couple of years ago might not be appealing to them now; so make sure you ask them what does make them happy and do it.

35. Be positive ~ even when it is a negative era of your lives; always try to show the full half of the cup.

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36. Be kind ~ and nice.

37. Be vulnerable ~ let those guards down and show your true colors.

38. Respond quickly to the other person’s request ~ show them that you are doing this because you care for them the most.

39. Talk about your love ~ again; communicate. Always tell them as well as show them how much you love them and how happy you are because of having them in your lives.

40. Treat each others’ friends and relatives with courtesy ~ even if you don’t like their family and/or friends, you treat them with respect and courtesy for the sake of your spouse; they deserve that much.

41. Send flowers every Valentine’s Day and anniversary ~ or just for the sake of it; flowers can say a lot on your behalf.

42. Admit when wrong ~ don’t be too arrogant to say it.

43. Be sensitive to each other’s sexual desires ~ more importantly; understand these desires and keep the communication going.

44. Pray for each other daily ~ and do it from the heart.

45. Watch sunsets together ~ just share such moments together; it does not have to be sunset; it can be anything else.

46. Say “I love you” frequently ~ don’t assume that they know you love them; everyone likes to hear it, so say it!

47. End the day with a hug ~ show closeness and again; intimacy.

48. Seek outside help when needed ~ if you reach a point when you feel that you cannot solve the problem alone; seek the help of someone you both trust before giving up, or go for professional help as a last resort. Never feel ashamed of that; seeking help is a lot better than giving up and doing your very best to solve your issues. You owe it to yourself and to them to do that

Is There a Right Time to Get Married?

Wednesday, November 5th, 2008

Love comes in the most unexpected time. When I was young, I would always tell my family that I will get married at the age of 25. By that time, I am through with my studies and probably working already. I promise to help my family after I finish school. I dream a lot of dreams actually. I planned my life. I intend to finish my studies at a short time. I go to school even during summer to shorten the time of my studies. I fared well in school. I was always a pride and joy of my parents. But I failed miserably. I got pregnant when I was 19 and graduating already in college. You could just imagine the dismay in my parents’ face. I failed them terribly. All my dreams were shattered just because I hurried in life.

Is there a right time to get married? Certainly YES. Actually, it is not apt to say that one has to be 25 and above to get married. It is a must that one has to be prepared financially and psychologically before plunging into marriage. Marriage can wait. Keep your values as much as possible. It is so easy to get married but very tough to stay married. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. It is a point of no return especially here in the Philippines. Divorce is not legal here and annulment costs so much. If you have no means and you want to get out of marriage, you can’t easily get out. You’re doomed. So for those who are in a hurry, you better think twice. Life is so complicated as it is. Nothing compares to a life with no responsibilities and carefree. Stay happy. As the song goes…wise men say only fools rush in…Don’t be one.

Are Financial Problems Threatening Your Marriage?

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

Are you and your spouse worried about what’s happening with your savings, your pension, your children’s college funds, or just staying employed? The Dow Jones is under 10,000 and European banks sound as shaky as the US banks. Do you find yourself fearful of your futures together? Do you find yourselves disagreeing with your partner about how to weather this financial meltdown? Do you find yourselves arguing because one of you makes more money and feels like they have more control over how money is spent? When money gets tight as a result of reduced income or increased mortgage payments and is combined with financial fears of the future, those old money arguments (my money vs. your money) may be causing you problems again. It is time for the two of you to have discussions again about money.

In his book Love & Money, Jeff Opdyke says: “It’s not really about the money. It’s about creating another level of intimacy in your relationship and bestowing trust on each other.” He further recommends joint accounts for couples which explicitly demonstrates the trust you have with your spouse.

When we keep secrets from our spouse about how much we make, how we spend money, or even how much money we have, this indicates a measure of distrust in the other person. When times are tough like now, you need to trust and have faith in your legal and romantic partner. All your money and all your debts are consider joint by the state. If you are not considering them joint, you are losing out. You lose resources that your partner brings to solving financial problems. You lose a feeling of honesty about yourself. And you lose some ability to manage your family finances in the best way possible.

If the two of you are not quite ready to combine your accounts, at least try to agree on and be committed to the following:

1. Agree to live within your means, so that expenses do not exceed your income.

2. Agree to open, honest communication about money.

3. Promise not to blame one another, judge each other, or keep secrets about money.

4. Be prepared to listen to your partner and understand their perspective.

You both need to be fully aware of the family gross and net income, to know where household (and individual) money goes each month and to know how much debt you have and the interest costs you are paying.

If you are unable to have a frank and open discussion about your money with your spouse, you may benefit from seeing a marriage counselor. The National Registry of Marriage Friendly Therapists (www.marriagefriendlytherapist.com) is a good resource for finding a therapist who is invested in helping you save your marriage. If you are unable to curb your spending, you might consider Debtors Anonymous, an organization for people trying to reduce debt and regain solvency. If you need a housing counselor or help with your mortgage, go to the web site of the US Department of Housing and Urban Development (www.hud.gov) and click on the Hope for Homeowners link.

It’s important to realize you are not alone. Many couples and families are struggling. Don’t let your marriage be a casualty of the worst financial disaster most of us have ever seen. You and your spouse are in this together. Get the help you need to keep your marriage stable and safe.

If you decide that you might need marriage counseling, check out my website, http://www.PamLipe.com My specialty is marriage and relationship counseling. For 20 years, I have been helping couples find the love and support they want in their marriages. My therapy practice serves the metropolitan area of Minneapolis/St.Paul, MN.


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