It is ironic, but the thing which a woman really wants in a man, is the idea that she is not his main purpose and goal in life. It is ironic. What makes a man really attractive is the fact that he has a grander purpose than just spending time with her. This is really important, because this is one thing which a woman really wants in a man.

I am now going to go through a few good reasons why having a strong purpose in life is going to help skyrocket your social and dating life:

1.) Having a strong purpose in life, and acting on it, will actually get you more women than when you do not have a strong purpose. It is ironic. We have to let go of what we really want in order to get it. Let go of your single minded desire to get more women, and you will see the results.

2.) People, in general, want to be around someone who has a higher purpose in life. It’s human nature. Secretly, we despise people will no real goal in life. Trust me. You will find that you actually make more new friends, make and female, when you actively pursue your goal.

3.) Having a clear higher goal in life is the essence of masculinity. I always like to use James Bond as my example when defining a masculine man. Watch some of his movies. He is so focused on his mission whenever he is out on the field. But for some reason, he will always attract the most attractive women around. You see, he was not in the venue just to “pick-up” women. He was there for his mission. You have to start forming the mindset that your life is awesome with or without women.